Life: A Journey Worthwhile

A man doesn't have time in his life
to have time for everything.
He doesn't have seasons enough to have
a season for every purpose. Ecclesiastes
Was wrong about that.


A man needs to love and to hate at the same moment,
to laugh and cry with the same eyes,
with the same hands to throw stones and to gather them,
to make love in war and war in love.
And to hate and forgive and remember and forget,
to arrange and confuse, to eat and to digest
what history 
takes years and years to do.


A man doesn't have time.
When he loses he seeks, when he finds
he forgets, when he forgets he loves, when he loves
he begins to forget.


And his soul is seasoned, his soul
is very professional.
Only his body remains forever
an amateur. It tries and it misses,
gets muddled, doesn't learn a thing,
drunk and blind in its pleasures 
and its pains.


He will die as figs die in autumn,
Shriveled and full of himself and sweet,
the leaves growing dry on the ground,
the bare branches pointing to the place
where there's time for everything.

The heading might sound a bit philosophical,but its just too realistic.Do we need to take Life "Seriously"?Every second person is found to be facing some situations in life which often strain their nerves and compel them to think over the same.Quoting a few set of questions might help in co-relating.Why do we take any relationship in life seriously even when we know its end might not be as expected and everything would fall apart?Why we take relationships like friendship seriously even when we know that a single truth despite hundred lies spoken all the while,may break the bond and would lead to parting ways? Infact there are umpteen things in life we don't have a control over,yet don't know what is it that doesnt stop us from being serious in our life.Why can't we be fun loving,jovial in tackling even the worst situations in life.

We spend most of our life bearing tantrums which in no way are giving us mental peace,the sense of contentment and a settled life.Life can never always be fun.If you facing turmoil,you soon would find happiness too.In this life full of hustle and bustle,I have seen people craving for inner peace just because they are not able to untangle some complications in their life.They ultimately end up being a pissed off being.Some people end up not getting their expected goal in life,they undergo a state of depression and what not.But is any sort of resentment or repentance going to change the situation?Why not to stay Cheerful and feel blessed that you are free of going through the traumas.Bringing sense of positivity and the fact "LIFE though bitchy or witchy,can vanish with the spur of moment" can definitely help in living life to our fullest,infact every bit of it.

Stop worrying about what people think about you,how they react,respect relationships but don't lose your self respect in nurturing them.Life is an unpredictable thing,why to waste it over petty things that are just meaningless.There is so much to do in life,so much to explore,so much to unwhirl.Realise the essence of life because its good to be late than "late Mr.":D

So,Learn to live life sincerely but not "SERIOUSLY".:-)

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Shallow Brains: You can't escape them.

I never ever thought that like ponds and small rivers even people have become shallow.Shallow in the way they think,they respond,they react,just everything.There was actually a time when you could rely on people and consider them to be your friends and close ones because they belonged to you.But now with the Shallow mentality taking a toll on people,such expectations have become mere imaginations.

They lack the sense of understanding and reciprocating because they have become too materialistic and petty things like feelings,they hardly matter or hold any position in their life.Infact,the situation now is so grave that every second person is found to be cheating on other for some unclear reasons.Just for as long as they feel one should stay with them in their life,its all Okay for them,but as soon as they realise the person is expecting a bit too much they prefer to keep themselves out of league and kick such unwanted people from their lives,not even realising they might mean the world to someone.I have seen people's heart tend to malfunction at the very moment of taking some crucial decisions in life,but their brain never does.In small little things inspite of looking for pleasure,they look for their personal interest and that too on long term basis.Sounds hilarious but you too might have come across such people in your life.Needless to say,every second person who comes in your life has the same"Shallow Brain".

Infact people these days just for the sake of their mental peace crush any relation and dump it,not even being able to sense how long it might have taken someone to nurture every moment that they had spent together.And one more thing thats worth paying attention,People when they find better candidates suiting their future prospects and needs,they take no time in replacing the other candidate and again its their mighty Shallow Brain which makes them do it all.I am using the word Candidate because for such petty brains we all are nothing more but a candidate:).

Beware of Shallow brains,and don't let your brain become shallow to make things and situations appealing.I would love to be by the Shallowness of nature but not a Shallow Being:)


This awesome poem would add more meaning to what I wrote:

This is a Strange world
With a lot of people
Running after money
As it is honey
They assert,"I love to talk"
But no idle talk
When there is need
They talk to all people
They Invite,chat
Saying"I love to chat"


After their need
 they hide in their shell
Feeling quite well
Spent their life
With their wife.
When their is a strife or turmoil,
They apply oil
to their boss
At all cost
To get a raise
In their own ways.

The Inescapable Voids

"Sometimes in life we don't need anyone,

But sometimes in life we don't have anyone when we need."

Void-The dark empty space that somehow stays in your life and affects it to the core,even if everything else is working fine.Void in life due to some avoidable circumstances proves to be a disaster that ruins your life and getting out of any such trauma is more like climbing the Mt. Everest,almost next to impossible.There is no one in this world who doesn't own a void-be it for such sort of regrets or losing someone too close in life.No matter how strong and practical we may sound or appear to be like,no matter how ignorant we try to behave towards various demoralising and dejecting situations,still just a void has the power to take a toll on you and like a tornedo,it can wipe all your cherished happiness in a go.What is it that makes a void in life overpower us contradicting our perception that voids are short-lived?

Its been truely said"Hundreds of lies donot break a relationship,but a single truth does".

Similar is the power of a VOID.Its pull is even more intense than that of a black hole.Even if you try hard to get out of its whirlpool,you still get stuck into it.There are many such tornado kinda voids in my life,aren't there in yours?

The Moment I Was Waiting For And Here It Is

Finally time to pack my books and keep them aside.Exams are all over,feels great:).The concept of exam is something really hard for me to digest as I am not a bookworm and cramming things on such chilly nights with a situation more like an owl,it makes everything dreadful.Now almost one and half year left and this wonderful college life would come to an end.A place where I made so many friends on whom I can rely upon,I have more of frenemies i suppose,never mind.I learned to laugh hard with everyone,learned how nightouts are made to be successful,I am kinda champ in that,I am going miss everything in the later part of my life for sure.

I don't give a second thought to how did my exam go because its not a thing worth remembering,I moreover feel just a day can't decide your intellectual level,atleast it is not present in my case,may be thats why I am mentioning it so explicitly;).I have ten days of break,but I am sure I will start getting bored from tomorrow itself.But to avoid boredom, I have planned a couple of things,I would be paryting out on Christmas eve-final decision to be taken up by my sister,obviously I would enjoy partying alone.Furthermore, I am planning something exciting so as to soothe my nerves because the last few days have really been the toughest ones for me.I am going to give a new start to everything,may be for other's good or may be for mine even.

Feeling A Little Free And Chilled Out :)

"Never believe the lines on your hand
That predict about your future
Coz people who dont have hands
also have a future
Just believe in yourself"



After the laborious sessionals and the dreadful nightouts, I am finally feeling so chilled out.I know I wouldn't come up with flying colours in these tests of mine and that too especially when they had a hi fi level(iit kinds :D).So, obviously over head transmission was unavoidable.My luck usually doesnt favour me,may be you wont believe to what I am saying but its true.If out of the whole book, I leave a section which is not very important,guess what the paper contains three fourth of it:P hard luck man.Just waiting for my destiny to take a turn-a sommersault instead :)

I usually think of quiting this stuff, I mean padhai likhai.I have a real wild imagination and during my exams it widens like anything:).I would prefer swapping my life with anyone,mind it anyone:P my servant,my pet,the sweepers (I think I don't need to elaborate on it furthur:D)

I know this phase wouldn't last for long, but as I have a small child inside me, I think it would definitely last forever:).Just hope that I get a good job,with thousands of bucks in my hand for my kharcha paani because my expenses are touching sky day by day:P.

Me And My Daily Life

"Sick of crying,
Tired of trying,
Yeah I am smiling,
But inside I am dying"

Don't worry I am not feeling so at the moment,but I had a similar kinda situation a couple of week back.I guess I took a little longer break as a blogger,but one should go for blogging only when you actually feel like doing so.So, I am here again to pen down my feelings and experiences so far.

My new session began about two months back,now it is the time that my sessionals are approaching.You wont believe that during my sessionals, my situation is like a calf being taken to get slaughtered:D.I am a true believer in night outs,so as always to get this trend tagged to my name I am going to follow it.

I usually think I am so smart;) I am not praising myself, just that I know really well how to tackle even the next to impossible kind of situations in my college and my life too.Ideas click me in a fraction of seconds, so you obviously can't call me a tubelight that flickers:D,rather I am a bulb.For instance,if I am late for my class,the most tried out reason with full sincereity,dedication on my face I generally say"Sir, actually I was standing in library's queque as I had to get the books issued".Me being specy adds to my oratorship quality-that is what my sister even calls me' a born orator'.It makes me look sterny,bookworm,deadly an ideal student though I am not.I am also good at proxy,I can be the nominee for the best proxy queen award:P.I am still a learner,I really need to put my potential to prove so;).

Shouting at the teachers for the attendance sake just as the lecture begins is now an important part and parcel of our life.If that due to some unavoidable reasons it doesn't happen,the entire lecture and its stuff goes undigested;).

Have you ever tried a combo of spicy punjabi touch choley with a piece of maggot,if not then you are cordially invited to my mess because my friend did so.Luckily, I was at home that day.

The life would continue in the similar manner for almost one and a half year,but it is a lovely feeling being a part of it:).

The Beginning Of A New Session

Finally after enjoying the 2 months break(I was nothing more than a couch potato throughout:D),I am all set to be back into the hustle bustle life.This is the time when I wont be Ragging juniors(antiragging group guys because I am in 3rd year).From tommorrow onwards my life is going to take a new turn in itself.

By now I have packed all my stuff,every nick nack but somehow I am kinda chillax as my home is nearby(just at 45 minutes drive:D).So, I can get anything at one phone call:).Thats what the college life should be like.Isnt it?

Tomorrow it is going to be really a hectic day out for me because you need to stand in queue for hours together if you really want to yourself a room in the hostel(the more longer you stand,the best room you'll get:D).Isnt that a good one :)?

I am in a dilemma,a big one as I am not able to decide what to opt for my future studies-MBA or M.TECH.There is a little flexiblity that I am comfortable with both:D.So basically that is what adding to my dilemma even more(multitalented girl you see).I am a pendulum natured person,so lets see where this pendulum of mine takes me to.

The most sleepy day of my life-its really difficult to come out of your couch potato kinda image and that to when you have enjoyed it hell lot in your vacations.

There are a couple of things I would surely miss when I get back to that laborious class sessions.fFrstly my A.C.-how I literally used to lie down on bed facing towards the a.c. so that I could get the best air out of it:D.
Secondly,my car-because I learnt driving recently,its not that recent but it took me years altogether to get to this stage,my best speed being 40-45.You want a lift but thats at your own risk:P.Yeah lastly, the mouth watering food-that pathetic and hellish mess food.You wont believe but I am kinda promoter of that food stuff,you really need to appreciate if you want to survive:D.

Neways I'll compromise,will go to cafe rather than mess and that too by bunking my classes.Isn't that a compromise:P? Indeed a big one.:)