Does love need a Validation?

If I'd Only Known,
That this is the last time we've met,
I would have stopped the break of dawn,
And stopped the sun to set.

If I'd Only Known,
That I would not ever see you again,
I would have framed a picture of you within,
To end my suffering to end my pain.

If I'd Only known,
That this is the last time I sit by your side,
I would have told you how much I loved you,
Keeping rest things aside.

If I'd Only known,
That we would never hold hands again,
I would have held them strong,
And never let anything go wrong,

If I'd Only known,
That you would stand always by my side,
I would have fought the world for you,
Breaking all the walls through.

If I'd Only known,
That your love was true,
If I'd Only known,that you would come back soon,
I would have waited for you to come by.

If I'd Only known any of this,
That you were what I was breathing for,
I would have breathed my last for you,
Seen you enough and bid you adieu,
While all I can do now,

Is sit here....

......and wait!!!







I read many quotes on love,even heard people saying it feels great to be a part of it but one question often strikes my mind and that is -Why does love need a Validation?Love is an unconditional feeling wherein you care for the person,you really feel like spending time with that person and a state of mind where you think more about the person than yourself .And when it's a true love,you tend to change your world so that you can become a part of somebody else's world.But I have often seen people being questioned by their beloved on their feelings for him/her and time and again they are even expected to keep proving their love for them.


Some people even feel odd and irritated when they are reminded of being in a committed relationship.They start feeling suffocated because they feel they have someone in life who will keep suppressing them,who will keep reminding them of their presence,who would even keep telling them what are the best things and what not.But why don't such people feel that their partner is concerned because they are keen to take things ahead in life,why don't they feel that the one they are getting irritated on is considering them to be their world,their life.


When you talk about commitment,What I believe is that it's a state where you accept a person full of flaws and love him with his flaws.Physics law"Opposite attracts" really holds well in real world too,people with different mindset do fell in love,but to make a relationship even more successful they need to have a good sync with their partner,they need to come out of their shell of thoughts to pull somebody in their shell-for life.


Why can't things be simple.Why can't we do certain small things that make our future partner happy?Why do people in love need to care about what future holds for them,as long as they have faith on each other,they should have faith on life as well that no matter what may come they are going to stay as one.


Love is all about expressing,not about keeping it within yourself.Love is about going crazy anytime not about waiting for the right time.Don't lose the ones you love because it might not take too long to find an apt person to fall in love with,but it takes really long to forget.

So fall in love and go crazy!!:)

P.S.The irony is I personally don't believe in love.