My Sister And Me

For many years we have shared our lives
One roof we once lived under
Sometimes we laughed sometimes we cried
Through winter storms and thunder
The younger years have faded fast
We've gone our separate ways
But through all time our friendship lasts
Our bond in life remains
As summer brings the happy times
The autumn winds will whisper
A closer friend I would never find
Than the one I call my sister.






Me and my sister-She is elder to me by four years,indeed a good age difference but I never let that difference come in my behaviour for her:D.I bet this,nobody can make out who is the elder one,hook or crook makes me appear elder to her:P.We are very different as far as our nature is concerned-she takes sometime to mingle with people,but I take fraction of seconds,provided those people cater to my terms and conditions efficiently:D.No doubt she is an amazing person,too calm and composed,simple,down to earth.Positivity in her is to such an extent that at times I literally have to give her lectures on how to become devilish for others:D



Looking back to the time,I am reminded of so many incidents we have witnessed together.When I was just an year old,from that very age itself I had learned to threaten her:D But she has been so good that she never retaliated.Right from my holiday homework and loads of charts and stuff,she made them all for me,just for the reason that she has a cursive handwriting and that was the only time of the year when she used to boast about it:D.I didn't mind and ignorned,obviously that was the only option I was left with.We used to play"teacher-teacher",I used to be the student mostly and was made to study each and everything,the teacher in our game had to ring the bell for the next class:D(scarcity of funds to appoint somebody for this post:D) but whenever it was my turn,the bell authority was with student again:D and I could hardly teach her for more than few minutes or just till the time I could open any lesson and the class was done:D.She definitely took undue advantage of being my elder sister in such games:D and my innocence too.:P



We used to play for hours and hours together,killing time was our passion:D but never has this happened that it anyhow affected our studies.Ahhh how can I forget the "fashion show"-This game was the outcome of my sister's thought process:D.We didn't try anything like models do,the daily wear clothes kept for being ironed used to be our attire and the credit for the music-goes to my sister:P.Watching"Small wonder" generally made us feel why we were not like"Vicky-the robot" and cursed our destiny for it:D.When we both started sleeping in a separate room,I always wanted to sleep with my mother.So,I used to lure her so that I could get into mom's room somehow:D because it would have been difficult for two of us to sleep with our mother:D.So,in such cases I used to dramatise the situation and made my probability of sleeping with her on the safer side:D.She even had to bear my habit of waking her up late in the night and asking her to get me something to eat,saying"even bournvita would work":D.Ultimately,one fine day she told mom and from that day itself a lunch box with parathas was kept by my side:D.I relished it like anything every midnight.



Our fights and tiffs used to be hilarious ones:D We both used to pull each others hairs to an extent that it would take life out of anybody,but it could never take anything out of us:D.The loosening of the grip had to be a simultaneous act:P We were like killers for each other,used to fight day and night-"brawl"would be the apt word.I had the habit of crying whenever I had to go to some new school and looking at me crying and finding her attempts failing in cheering me up,the best option she was left with-start crying herself:D.I usually used to get into her class and disturb her like anything.I have been full of energy since childhood,infact overdose:D compared to her:P



An awesome sister-She used to make me learn my lessons and even used to make me revise them so that I gain some confidence and could score well in the exams:).She has been my biggest support in almost every phase of my life,she knows all my secrets and yeah as far as I think, I know hers too:D.The late night gossips have been amazing which made us sleep at 3 or 4 in the morning.During our tiffs,cursing,abusing and blaming each other used to make us feel that we were enemies to each other,but such feelings never lasted for long:)



How can I forget to mention how I used to literally wait for two occasions throughout the year-One was my birthday and the other would be hers:D.I literally used to wait for the gifts to come and before she could even think of a quick glance at her gifts,I had already chosen my share of gifts by then:D But she never said a word to me and agreed happily:) or may be not,she can answer that better:P



The space too would fall short in describing what our relationship is like but we,for sure,are the bestest buds:).Just be the way you are.

P.S. But try changing where ever you can:D specially in the matters concerning me:D Don't forget about the soft corner you have for me in your heart,soften it more day by day:D